I just received my kit and need some help. I did cross stitch when I was in college (I’m 50 now) but I was taught to start in the middle. I like the idea of starting at the left upper corner but I can’t find how far in to start. The videos say that most of the pattern start two inches in from the top and 2 inches in from the side but I can’t find that on the pattern. Also, I think I see little symbols in the pattern but it is so small I’m not sure and I don’t know what they mean.